听歌 ： ）

miss u most (at christmas time) - J

play的时候，先pause把首歌load完再听，就顺很多了。


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posted by Qing aka 莉晴 @ 11:51 PM Comments: 4

你一直在玩

我的ringtone~~几好听~ ： )
可是yy说很恐怖很像念经。哈哈哈。他有哪一首不像念经的。


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posted by Qing aka 莉晴 @ 11:44 PM Comments: 0

转载自小娴

是的，我不喜歡解釋，一解釋就沒意思。大多數時候，我寧願選擇沉默。

有些心事，可以永遠深埋於心底。有時候，不是為了我，而是為了保護我在乎的人。

當你長大，你慢慢會學懂下面幾件事情：

有些人不必理會。無論他說什麼，做什麼，多麼無理，多麼無禮，多麼幼稚，真的不需要在乎。

有些人永遠成不了你的敵人，不必抬舉他。這種人只是自作多情，以為攻擊你，傷害你，就能夠被你所恨。

有些人不必等待 。我們心裡其實清楚得很，這個人不必再等了，只是我們放不下。


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posted by Qing aka 莉晴 @ 7:56 PM Comments: 2

转载自王永庆的一席话

一根火柴棒价值不到一毛钱；
一栋房子价值数百万元……
但是一根火柴棒却可以摧毀一栋房子。
可見微不足道的潜在破坏力，
一旦发作起來，其攻坚灭頂的力量，无物能御。
要垒一百万张骨牌，需費时一个月，
但倒骨牌却只消十几秒钟。
要累积成功的实业，需耗时数十载，
但要倒闭，却只需一个错误决策。
要修养被尊敬的人格,需经过长时间的被信任，
但要人格破产却只需要做錯一件事。

一根火柴棒， 是什么东西呢?
它就是下列四項:

1. 无法自我控制的情绪；
2. 不经理智判断的決策；
3. 頑固不冥的个性；
4. 狹隘无情的心胸。

检查看看，我們随身携带着几根火柴棒?



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posted by Qing aka 莉晴 @ 11:49 AM Comments: 0

啦啦啦我想吃宵夜

我又写bollock啦。
对啊我很忙的。可是我不管。
一个一个link去按，发现很久没去看一些别人的bollock，读着读着，就来写一写了。
看到这里，很想把那本自杀的兔子买下来，还有她朋友买给他的128招。想起the mines好像有书展哦。然后圣诞节又要到了。谁-要-送-礼-物-给-我。（呵呵呵）
噢，我可以选那个做交换礼物啊，然后和自己交换。娃哈哈哈哈。做么我浆聪明的。

不要问我为什么突然想起之前野牛算命师说我不喜欢和别人争（我自己都不知道）。我真的不喜欢啊。一些比较冷门的很猥的或者人人都说不好的东西我就特别喜欢，人人都争着要争着讨好的，我就会放弃或闪到一边自命清高冷眼相看。冷门的猥的或者人人都说不好的东西变成人人都争着要争着讨好后，我也会放弃或闪到一边自命清高冷眼相看。所以我说他很厉害。我就是这种笨蛋。反正那么多人，也不在乎少我一个了。争什么争。傻的。 （其实是我lan特别啦。娃哈哈哈）

我在说什么？哎呀还是继续做工好。




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posted by Qing aka 莉晴 @ 1:27 AM Comments: 3

: D

很忙。根本没有时间发呆。
除了社交上的，工作上的，老朋友新朋友的，中学聚会事宜的，活动排山倒海而来，非常充实。
大略记下这2星期的事情。不然很快就忘记。
那天一个电话号码，不断念着都会在半分钟内念念下忘记。
首先就是阿剪婚宴，和yy当司仪。目睹了经典的求婚，还有自己很好笑的‘祝hok4'。
除了恭喜阿剪和阿醒婚宴举办成功，更要恭喜无比勇敢的阿森对阿yy的求婚成功。双方都捡到宝，很替他们开心，希望他们筹办婚礼顺顺利利啦。
过后我忙着弄proposal和quotation。请众神保佑我，我很用心努力做的计划书，的quotation，和presentation。请保佑我可以顺利得到这份工作。
哎呀，然后我还是很忙。appointment排到满满，设计工作都只好安排到晚上了。
然后老朋友我的哎丫妹妹结婚了。本来需要帮忙他很多，结果都因为不让她不好意思而作罢。哈哈。婚宴举办得很温馨很体面。而且她很重视我们的出席把我们安排在主家席旁边，觉得很荣幸也很贴心。看到他越来越漂亮，而且嫁得好，真的很为她高兴。
同一天也有一个老朋友结婚，为了和中学的一班老友会面，没办法出席同时间和2位10多年没见面的小学朋友从香港远道而来的聚会，非常遗憾。
然后还有回中华开会的事宜。终于可以什么都不想的时候是过后在篮球场上和‘新认识’的‘老校友’玩投篮的时候。最后一次碰篮球应该是咸丰年前的事了。。咸丰年前，这个是老朋友佩玲教的，哈哈哈，很难得再重聚还可以很多东西聊个不停。
很高兴生活很充实。见了很多新客户，接了很多新生意，遇到很多老朋友，认识很多新朋友，做了很多新事情。希望这样的日子可以久一点。我会很努力的。
众神啊~~请给我更多更多客户，更多更多朋友！！


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posted by Qing aka 莉晴 @ 2:20 AM Comments: 7

嗯

从不属于自己的派对回到家，邻居马来人也搭棚大摆筵席庆祝婚宴。
家里没人，妈妈和爸爸出去了，妹妹也越来越少呆在家。
噢，还有一只狗。
如果有一天妈妈和爸爸都不在了，那大概会很寂寞吧。
那么久了，妈妈常常一个人在家，那肯定也很寂寞吧。



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posted by Qing aka 莉晴 @ 10:23 PM Comments: 4

穷人的梦

穷人是怎样实现她的梦？
穷人今年去了krabi phiphi langkawi,去了澳门香港。下一站还有胡志明。
穷人已经为自己缴交了4个月的公积金。
穷人收入少，可是活得很富足。
穷人还是有看电影，不过看少了。
穷人还是有买衣服鞋子，不过买便宜的。
穷人还是疼自己，久久一次也买了很贵的lavender香精油好让自己睡好一点。
穷人有妈妈做的李嘉诚都吃不到的很好吃的家常菜。
穷人除了负担一部分家用，还负担一整只bzai。
穷人不能只呆在家里，穷人还得出去见人交朋友。
穷人很省。
穷人要为自己安排未来。穷人要买个easel，想画画，想要写作。
穷人要去美国要去日本要去欧洲。
穷人谢谢支持她的家人还有朋友。
穷人不穷，穷人和马丁路得一样，有梦。



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posted by Qing aka 莉晴 @ 1:23 AM Comments: 4

忙的时候

之前不是努力想让自己忙起来的吗。
结果我现在真的很忙。
有很多琐碎的事要做，有很多重要的，有很多人家的事，很多近的远的，一定要做的，可以耽误一下的。
近的有明早的羽球，明晚的讨论，后天的婚宴emcee，婚宴前或后的yumcha，还有星期一早上要寄出去（现在还没做）的计划书和预算。
远的有明年的大聚会，帮忙老友的婚礼。
重要的有打拼的生意，树的市场计划，合伙的生意大计。
人家的有出席朋友的不认识她老公的婚宴，远方不知道名字的亲戚的婚宴。
琐碎的有要重新看one piece，看完one piece看另一套，然后还有上载照片，一些不上载我就会忘了的照片。
还有下个月去胡志明leh。然后允许的话我要去针灸。然后重新努力存钱。
还有帮bzai洗澡，还有一年洗一次车，今年还没有洗过。
还有迎接圣诞节。总觉得会有好事发生。我的圣诞节。然后2009。
所以结果我真的变忙了，忙到我不知道要先做哪一样。
就单单打拼的工作，我就不知道要从哪里开始了。
结果现在在这里写blog。明天打完球流完汗头脑应该可以清醒很多。至少我是这么认为啦。
忙的时候，也茫茫。



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posted by Qing aka 莉晴 @ 1:18 AM Comments: 6

金鱼的记忆

我一直以为自己拥有大笨象一样大的记忆力。
直到回中学发现怎样都叫不出一些什么什么老师，直到见面都叫不出学院朋友的名字，直到忘了自己记得。
我归咎日愈增长的年龄，退化的脑袋（还要是本来都不好的那种）。
可是一些琐碎的，却会突然冒脑海在眼前。像“我难过，因为我知道有一天我会忘记。”类似这样的句子。
却不记得我害怕忘记的是什么东西。真难过啊，我果然忘记了。
原来我的记忆力不是大笨象的，是金鱼的。



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posted by Qing aka 莉晴 @ 12:38 AM Comments: 2

10 ways to impress a woman in the 1st date

I was searching for suitable pics for a job.
Then i saw ths. ha ha ha. ma de.

1. When the check comes, offer to pay the bill, take out your library card, give it to the waiter, and say, “This should just about cover it.” When the waiter brings the card back and says that it’s not a valid form of payment, apologize to him and your date, take out your Barnes & Noble discount card, give it to the waiter, say, “This oughta do the trick.” Then resume conversation with your date. When he returns again, act frustrated and ask your date if she has a valid form of payment and be very apologetic about it. She will see that you read books and will be very turned-on.

2. If you don’t want to do the library card gambit then say, “I believe in Women’s Lib and insist that we go Dutch.” After the meal, when the check comes, take out a calculator (or pen/pencil) and figure out exactly what each of you owe. Add 10% for a tip. When she says that 10% is a shitty tip, tell her that you don’t believe in tipping. She will see that you are opinionated and passionate about things.

3. When you and your date sit down to eat, briskly take the menu away from her and insist on ordering for both of you. Say, “If you don’t mind, I’ll just order for the two of us. I’m good at this. I’m a foodie.” Order the thing on the menu that you’re most certain she won’t like. Order yourself a hamburger.

4. Or, if you don’t want to do that, then order something for her and nothing for yourself. Tell her that you’re vegan and on a diet. Women love men who aren’t into eating meat or food in general. It’s very sexy and masculine to them.

3. Excuse yourself at some point and say, “Will you pardon me for a sec? I gotta take a big ol’ dump.” (don’t leave out the “ol’” that’s key. If you don’t say, “ol’” it will seem crass. By putting the “ol”’ in it’s kinda cute.) Take a long time in the bathroom. When you return, say something like, “I just lost 30 lbs. in there!” She will find this charming and endearing.

4. When the food comes, place the napkin in your shirt like a bib. Be sure to get tons of food on it to indicate its effectiveness. Once or twice during the meal also use the napkin to blow your nose. Be certain to really dig the napkin into your nostril. She will be very impressed by this.

5. During the meal: Talk only about yourself; Brag about your achievements; Rag on people more successful than you; Come across as bitter and resentful of others; Don’t ask her questions. If you’re depressed, tell her. Tell her about all of your insecurities. Confess to all of your shortcomings - particularly as they relate to sex. If you’re unhappy or unfulfilled in your life, tell her about this. When she begins talking, interrupt her and change the subject.

6. When her meal arrives, touch her food to make sure it’s the right temperature. Do this with her water as well. Make sure it’s cold. Don’t be shy. Use your whole hand.

7. Insist on not ordering dessert. Tell her that you think ordering dessert is bullshit and phony. Tell her that you “absolutely hate” ordering dessert. She will be very intrigued by this. She will find you to be extremely uncomprising and strong.

8. After the meal, insist on not walking her home. Tell her that you “don’t believe” in walking a girl home. Tell her that you believe that “chivalry is dead” and that you’re a “modern man.” She will be blown away by this and she will think that you are extrememely progressive and cool.

9. Try to leave a little bit before her. Tell her that you have “somewhere else to be.”

10. Finally, grab a very big handful of mints on your way out and stuff them in your pocket. Tell her, “You never know when these will come in handy.” She will find this to be very smart and pragmatic thinking.

(quoted fr here)

yaya, very impressive.


ahaha.


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posted by Qing aka 莉晴 @ 4:55 PM Comments: 2

爱情盛宴

打字打到眼睛要掉出来的时候i came across this movie trailer.

There is a story about the Greek Gods; they were bored so they invented human beings, but they were still bored so they invented love, then they weren't bored any longer. So they decided to try love for themselves. And finally, they invented laughter, so they could stand it.



"God is either dead, or he despises us."
"You don't really believe that."
"Maybe. I saw the most remarkable thing just now. I wandered into the stadium, I thought I was alone... but down on the 50 yard line there was a couple. They were making love. I watched for longer than I should have. I was envious... and then I felt sorry for them. There's so much they don't know; heartbreak they can't even imagine."
"[sighs] Well, even if they knew, it wouldn't change anything."
"How so?"
"Chloe knew what was going to happen to Oscar."
"She knew?"
"She did. She went to some psychic lady, predicted the whole thing."
"She believe her?"
"Yes,she did. She didn't run away, she didn't crawl into a hole. She found them a house. She threw away her birth control and married him. God doesn't hate us. If he did, he wouldn't have made our hearts so brave."


突然很想看一场电影，或谈一场恋爱，都可以，随便。


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posted by Qing aka 莉晴 @ 7:50 PM Comments: 2

^ ^

人不可能每天都快樂，唯一可以做的，是盡量享受當下這一刻的快樂。尤其當你知道，紜紜眾生裡，有一個人總是想你快樂，也用盡方法希望你快樂，那麼，即使他做得不夠好，即使他讓你掉眼淚，即使滿懷愁思，你還是會抹乾眼淚，努力笑一個。

小娴小姐这样在她的bollock写道。

哈哈，那么我就要笑很多个了。因为身边想要我快乐的人，有好几个。这好几个，是我很大很大的资产。

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posted by Qing aka 莉晴 @ 1:23 AM Comments: 5